My Pride story, by Clare

Clare, a person we support from Hertfordshire, was recently asked to share her story of coming out as a lesbian woman as part of our Pride month celebrations. Here's what she had to say:

Hello everyone,

I want to share with you how I am celebrating Pride Month and what it means to me.

My name is Clare, and I have a brother named Daniel. We both came out as gay and lesbian when we were teenagers, and our journey has been one of love, acceptance, and pride. Our mum has always been overprotective, but she is also incredibly proud of us. She has never been ashamed to show her support and love for her children, and that makes all the difference.

Throughout my life, I’ve learned that people need to respect our wishes and understand that being gay or lesbian is just a part of who we are. We are still the same human beings—deserving of love, respect, and kindness. Pride Month is a time to celebrate our identities, to be visible, and to remind everyone that everyone deserves acceptance.

This Pride Month, my brother attended Pride events in Southampton and Brighton, and I am so proud of him for standing tall and celebrating openly. As for me, I feel grateful to live in a place where I receive full support from my support staff and my neighbours in Filbert Close. I am welcoming and understanding, and I am proud to be open about my identity.

Pride Month is not just about celebrating who we are; it’s about raising awareness, fighting for equality, and fostering a world where everyone can be themselves without fear or shame. I encourage everyone to embrace love, respect, and kindness—values that bring us together.

Happy Pride Month to all! Let’s continue to celebrate diversity and spread love everywhere.

With pride,

Clare